I do love it when you beg me to let you have an orgasm. Hearing the desperation and pleading in your voice as you ask ever so nicely for permission to let go and cum for me really brings a smile to my face. In addition to just plain ol’ enjoying your anguished pleas, I also love exercising power over you and your cock. Cock control games give me such a rush! I can’t even explain how much I love taking over your dick and making you into my personal stroking slut bitch. And I mean that in the most affectionate way possible. When I play orgasm denial games with you, it’s not because I’m mad at you, or upset, it’s just because it’s fun for me.

Orgasm Denial and Cock Control

You can pretty well divide cock control games into two different areas of play: denial and delay. Orgasm delay features just putting it off for a while, so that your arousal ramps up higher and higher, and you get to build up to an extreme orgasm eventually. Orgasm denial, on the other hand, can use the same build up that delay games use, but in the end, there is no resolution. You don’t get to cum at all! You can stroke, and edge, and tease the everlasting spunk out of your dick, but that final ejaculation and orgasm? Nah.

Of course, if I were really mean and cruel to you, I’d let you take your eventual orgasm and then ruin it for you. Ruined orgasms are like the delay games, but instead of letting you squirt like a fire-hose all over the place, I do something (or tell you to do something) that ruins the pleasure, or at least reduces it significantly. There’s a few reasons why ruined orgasm games might be played, ranging from using it as a punishment to a training tool to move you towards a greater goal. Don’t get it twisted, I really like ruined orgasms, but sometimes, I like just saying “No” better.

Denial Makes You Horny

You’ve heard it said that ‘no is a complete sentence’, right? Well, it is, and sometimes the most exhilarating thing a woman can do is tell a man ‘no’ and make it stick. Nothing you say, no blandishment or entreaty could possibly sway my decision. No, you can’t cum for me. No, you can’t even keep stroking. No, I don’t think I will let you out of chastity today. No, you can’t ‘just’ hump my leg. Cry and plead all you want, sometimes cock control means orgasm denial, and that you don’t get what you want out of life.

Think of it like a good solid life lesson. Sometimes things suck a lot and you have to tuck your hard cock back into your pants and just go suffer blue balls for a while. It happens. Oh well. Think of me every time you shift and feel your balls twinge, and every time a good breeze makes your cock stiffen and leak. Imagine how good it would feel to stroke off and hear me give you permission. You have it in your mind, right? The sure and certain knowledge that this time you get to cum for me… Now imagine that I told you “No” again.

Do You Want To Cum For Me?

Catch me on a good day, and beg real pretty for permission to cum, and maybe I’ll even let you! Maybe I won’t even ruin it! I’m not cruel all the time, and I certainly don’t want to give the impression that I’d never ever let anyone have an orgasm no matter what. Maybe for special occasions, like your birthday. Or an anniversary, or Christmas. Maybe a holiday or special event, or if you actually sob big horny tears while you beg me to let you… But I’ll tell you this for free: if you ask me to deny you, I hope you don’t think I’ll give in and allow an orgasm. If you ask me to ruin you, you’ll get a ruined orgasm! You get what you ask for, after all, so be careful if you call me up and say “Mistress Harper, I want you to control my cock and never let me cum!” You should call me up and say exactly that, by the way. You’ll make my day!

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Your Orgasm Denial Mistress, Harper