Ms Olivia’s Cock Control: Why your best orgasms are the ones you don’t have

When you think of cock control, what do you think of? I think of it as sensual surrender, where you feel that simmering desire for hours. You know what I’m talking about, don’t you? That simmering heat in your groin, the way your cock twitches with a mind of its own when you’re idle. You know the excitement isn’t just about the finish line, it’s about the torment of the race itself. I love playing orgasm edging games. When you appreciate the art of the tease, then you’re in the right place!

Cock Control Instructions

Let’s begin with this. Wrap your fingers around the base of that cock and squeeze. You ‘can’ stroke but only about an inch of the shaft, stay at the base, and feel the buildup of your erection. Savor the weight, appreciate the fullness. Explore with your fingertips, rather than frantically stroking.

The sweet spot on your cock

Let’s talk about the frenulum – that spot on the underside of the penis – where the foreskin intersects with the head. I call this the sweet spot because whew it feels so good. Rub that spot with the tips of 2 fingers. Now pinch it (not for pain, for sensation). Try various sensations right on that area. I like the pinch and twist move. When you do this with fingers slippery with lube your finger tips naturally slide off when you twist ‘too far’ and it’s a delicious feeling. So sensual, so erotic, and yes even frustrating.

Start slowly stroking for me

Slow down your breathing. Sync your breathing with the rhythm of your touch. As you inhale, slide your grip up your shaft. Let the tension build. As you exhale slide down. Experiment with this move. Start with pacing with your breath and then experiment with speeding up your stroking. For example, Do 2 up/down strokes on the inhale, pause and then 2 up/down strokes on the exhale. The key to this move is to make you slow down and savor the sensations.

Urge to speed up versus Mistress JOI

My jerk off instructions will always have you stroking in ways to make your balls full, heavy and tight. Feel that? It’s the undeniable urge to thrust, to speed up, to chase the inevitable. That is the moment of truth. That is the edge. And I’m telling you to step back from the edge. Slow your hand to a near standstill. Keep just enough pressure to remind you of what you’re holding, but not enough to get to the point of no return.

Count the edges but do not cum

What is the most edges you’ve ever done in one sitting? I want you to double that number so you experience edging for a long time. You can do this with the number of edge or the length of time edging before release. Choose one and then double your previous effort. Yes, it will be a challenge. But, let’s face it, if it’s easy then it’s boring! I want you to earn the reward of release. Your ability to deny yourself, because I have asked you to, is the ultimate act of devotion. Cock control is a form of devotion.

Throbbing cock, aching balls

Take your hand away from that cock. Notice how it’s standing alone, throbbing, leaking pre cum, and twitching with need. Feel the delicious frustration, the buzzy energy coursing through your body. Focus and breathe. Really savor the sensations as you feel your cum building and building and building. This is called riding the edge of orgasm and it can become addictive in the best kinds of ways!

Do you want to cum?

Well, of course you do! I mean, you’ve just edged for a long time. You ‘will’ get a reward, I promise, but first I want you to click on this erotic audio with your final instructions. Remember, it might not be the reward you want but I know what you really need in order to have an unforgettable orgasm!