I know some of you think that denying your orgasm is a cruelty that we mistresses love to enforce. Well I’m not going to tell you we don’t love having you squirm and wriggle on the end of our sensual little strings, but cum denial is much more than that. You see we understand our stroker boys all too well. We know that you want to just pump your cocks, shoot your load, have your orgasm and then off to something else. But what you are missing is the real joy of stroking and the gradual build up of desire and anticipation towards the orgasm.
Face it, anything really good is worth working for and waiting for.
So why do you want to cum so quickly?
Recently I was working with one of my little stroker boys that really needed some cock control. We started with some nice long sessions of just slow stroking where I took him to the edge and then made him stop. I had him use some baby oil to lubricate his cock and balls and had him close his eyes and imagine that it wasn’t his hand that his cock was sliding against, but the tight, wet walls of well, you can guess. He took long slow strokes for ten or twenty strokes then I had him massage his balls and only touch his cock with the palm of his hand.
We did this for a while, then back to stroking and as he got close, I had him to beg me to cum.
“Please Mistress Ivy, may I cum?”, he repeated over and over until he reached the edge and I said “no, maybe tomorrow”. Now don’t think that I don’t enjoy that, the severe disappointment and humiliation of having to stop so suddenly, but it’s for his own good. We practiced this technique day after day and I could tell by the tone in his voice and the urgency of his begging that he desperately wanted to cum, that the anticipating was building day after day and his stroking was more tantric and more enjoyable and when I finally did release him, when it had become the unexpected response and I said simply, “yes, you may pet”, his orgasm was like none he had ever had.
Now, can you see how denial is not just for the evil pleasure of the mistress, but in the long run is better for you. I know this sounds like fun and I would like to put you on the Mistress Ivy denial program.
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Mmmmm, this sounds wonderful Mistress Ivy. Stoking for you in a long session with multiple edging….I’m not that good at controling myself though:)
something as stroking oneself or being strked is in its very best to take a long long time
If it’s worth doing, it’s worth doing well.
where can I sign up for the training? Like Cindy, not so very good at controlling orgasms and need discipline and help to do so as well as improve the quality of my orgasms.